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Rant: To the 23 year old girl I met at the bar |
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Monday, 20 August 2007 23:30 |
After a long chat about life, politics, and your future career in
interior design, you asked me, a man nearly a decade your senior,
something like, "What have you learned over the last ten years that you
think I should know?" I offered some boilerplate platitude like, "Don't
limit your options because you never know where you'll end up." I'm
sorry.
I wanted to give you some real advice, but I was afraid of
offending you. We spoke for a little longer, and I was building up the
courage to tell you the truth, but before I could get to the good stuff
your beefy bartender boyfriend (who stared at me menacingly the entire
time that you and I spoke) whisked you away. Please accept the
following paragraphs as the advice I didn't give but should have.
First of all, your boyfriend is a fucktard loser, and if he's the
kind of guy you usually date you are in real trouble. I'll admit he's a
good looking fellow: Strong jaw and big muscles, but he is also a moron
and has two kids. Jesus, how old is he, twenty-five? And he already has
two kids? What the hell are you thinking? Those little bastards aren't
free and if he mans-up to his responsibility he will spend the rest of
his life broke. If he doesn't man-up he is an even bigger loser and you
should definitely drop him. I'm not saying you should get with me or
anything, I'm thirty and bald and aware of my chances with the nubile
tastiness that is you, but you live in a city chock full of
universities and I'm sure you can find someone young, good looking, and
smart enough to wear a fucking condom when he does the nasty.
Speaking of sex, you need to be careful. Really careful. Drug
development is expensive and when big pharmaceuticals make a medicine
for a disease it is because that disease is (1) very common; (2) bad
enough that people are willing to pay $$$ to treat it; and (3) going to
be around long enough for them to get their money back. All those
Valtrex commercials you see on TV are telling you that lots of people
have herpes. But you don't know anyone who has herpes, do you? That's
because men who have it don't tell their partners. You should be
prepared for the worst. I've never had any STDs, partly because being
bald makes getting laid nearly impossible, but also because I use
condoms EVERY TIME I HAVE SEX. You should too. Just because you're not
willing to risk your health for a guy doesn't mean you don't like him,
love him, or want to be with him. It just means that you have a head on
your shoulders and some self respect.
Finally, about your career. Honestly, it really isn't much of one.
You live in the Bay. There are enough gay men around here to design and
decorate every doghouse, outhouse, whorehouse, and courthouse for 700
miles. Every man you talk to knows this and we all mean to tell you,
but you are really hot and humoring you is a condition precedent to
licking and sticking your honey pot. Seriously, you really need to
think more about exactly what you are going to do for a living because
if you end up with Mr. Fucktard, or any facsimile thereof, you will
likely be supporting yourself for many years to come.
Good luck and best wishes
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