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Tuesday, 11 September 2007 23:03 |
Here are the types of guys you need to
keep an eye on or avoid all together, getting involved with guys like
this will end up getting you hurt or leaving you not fully satisfied.
The Mamma's BoyHere is a guy who probably still lives at home with his mom, lives close by his mom, or calls her everyday and goes there on weekends to have dinner with her. This is the type of guy ho lets his mom decorate his place with doilies, and flower bed spreads, and pictures of her all through his place.
This is a guy who you will never be able to live up to his mother, everything you do or say we probably be repeated to his mom, she is basically his on therapist and whenever hes mad at you she'll be twice as mad at you, so now you have two battles on your hands.
The best way to end this relationship is to say you don't like his mother, then whats the sparks fly!
The Body BuilderThis is the guy you will see with photos of himself, with his shirt off, just take a look at his MySpace or Facebook account, you will know right away. This is a guy who might have had low self esteem at one point in his life and since he started body building, hes gained confidence, but at the same time the muscle might have clouded up his brain and might not have noticed it wasn't the muscles that got girls talking to him but it was his self confidence.
This is one to avoid because you will never see him, he will be way too busy at the gym with his good buddy Ace. This will be a guy who will never let go and have fun because he will be too busy counting the calories and thinking how hes getting fat because he hasn't been to the gym in 4 hours.
One way to make is true colours come out is to ask him to make a choice, the gym or me?
The WomanizerThis is the guy who will treat you like a princess, he will be smart, funny, dresses trendy and the perfect lover. This is the guy who is out to impress all the time and impress he will(Every women he comes into contact with). He is the guy the has troubles remembering details; such as names, birthdays, etc.. Looking at this guys MySpace or Facebook will contain hundreds of women which will say "Met Randomly" and of course if you ask him about any of them, he will say they were an old friends yet won't be able to give you any details about them.
Best way to break it off with this type of guy, is to tell him you met someone else, for him to think thats there is a better man out there, will make him think that you were the one because another guy better then him wanted you.
Of course, there are exceptions. For example, if "the body builder" knows how to give you the same type of attention he gives his body then this could potentially be a good thing. And if you are a workaholic that has no plans of changing then being in a relationship with another workaholic will allow the two of you to focus more on your careers while hopefully having some focus left for each other. If "mamma's boy" mom loves you and you can get the same focus from the man as his mom gives then just maybe... it's a stretch.
A good approach to take in wanting out of one of these relationships is to be honest. This may gain more respect. Tell "mamma's boy" that he's too focused on his mom. Tell the womanizer that you only have room in your life for a man that only has room for you. It's doubtful that they'll change, but at least they'll know the real reason you don't want to pursue a relationship.
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